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“where mothers must work like they don't have children

and parent like they don't have jobs”

...How true...

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Thank you for putting my words down on paper. Like so many mothers that stand beside me. Always know I should have tissue ready when I read Caitlin’s work.

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Thank you, Caitlin, for so beautifully expressing what so many of us are experiencing. The good news and the bad news is we're not alone.

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Brilliant. Simply brilliant. Thank you for speaking the truth.

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Great lines about our depressing times. I don't know how you do it. I couldn't stay on Twitter anymore with all the bickering and backstabbing but I still believe in what you do and will support you however I can.

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Just two weeks to flatten the curve of all life to silence and

End the scamdemic

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I'm old now but I try to mother too. Thank you for seeing me. I so appreciate your work, Caitlin and Tim.

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Saw and heard my mom in there!

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I'm being gentrified. My simple, poor, existence is nearing termination. Things truly suck today. I feel for all the marginalized folks having to deal with the vampires sucking our blood as if what they do matters. War, environmental destruction, the end stage of industrial capitalism. i can't wait 'till it's all over. And I even didn't/don't have any kids to fret over; I can't imagine worrying about them, and yes, I do care, greatly for their future. Peace, The Ol' Hippy

The poem is greatly appreciated today. Thanx, Caitlin

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this line: "where mothers must work like they don't have children,

and parents like they don't have jobs.."

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The status of women in any society is the hallmark of that society. That says nothing good about any society, including the Christian West. We want citizens to do the work, pay taxes and provide the superior amenities we all enjoy. But we don't want to help families, especially mothers of young children. I've even heard this disconnect rationalized as "demeaning of motherhood" which is based on love, and not "lucre". And the two.of course, are mutually exclusive. No use going into the socialization that keeps the image of women infantile and helpless, the propaganda about women's "nature" disclosed to the wise among us. It isn't working so well anymore: many women reject motherhood as the pious ruse it is. I've known a mere handful of women who were actually happily married. And most mothers of young children seem tired and depressed to me. If we don't soon adjust this narrative all our citizens will be immigrants. Not that there's anything wrong with that...

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Masks 😷

Needles 💉

Fake pandemics 😨

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Beautiful prose! The theme extends to 'single' responsible senior/elder women who must 'save' themselves from the consequences of today's paradigm. Self Preservation without self flagellation & guilt must be revitalized.

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This poem is wonderful. The image of “hearts outside their bodies on little legs” was written for me! Thank you.

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hi

not first time im here reading your words ones that i admire..

unlike Some Dumb Girl wrote i did not felt the past lockdowns so hard as i was always out and about ... but i saw a city i live empty and deserted like a sci fi movie, gladly i do not like where i live cause i never related to this place im still living... rains a lot, everything has to be paid (not yet the beaches), nobody can buy a beer after 11pm (just like dry law dry brain politicians), everything besides food is so expensive that only the sent spies rich chinese communists can afford, people nowadays here do not take care about their miserable lifes only but publicy interfere and opinion in other people affairs too for my disgust and often i had to tell people "why u care, take care of your own and leave me alone, is it hurting you what you see me doing?" when it is all just silly things, anyway english people like these ones brainwashed by the Liberals parties are not only boring but asphyxiaiting to my free tropical soul.... the majority here swallow any media propaganda any s that comes out of FJT mouth

it is very oppresing to be here, its sad, sad people with no "sabor" sad grey skies, sad acceptance, sad idiots on the streets masked, sad imbeciles in the market masked, sad young people masked, sad culture of sheeps

I f miss the tropics, the mess, the poor at least most of them are happy and festive, i miss somewhere i have never been cause the hungry for power and control filthy elites achieved something, they had modified, created new human beings a new class of idiotic and depressing pathetic obey your gov freaks and no matter how rich or not these new imbeciles are they suffer the same apathy and blandness

The Land of the Bland .... If i just was my neighboor who owns his 5million house i would sell it and gtfo of this asap and stay under the sun and close to the ocean, ocean of love

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